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Babies and young children are creatures of habit, so they enjoy the predictability of a ritual. Performing the same simple tasks before bed each night helps to signal that everything is safe and sound, and that it's time to go to sleep.

Establishing a Baby Bedtime Routine

Here are our top guidelines for an easy bedtime routine.

  • Consistency is everything Once you start a bedtime routine and do it regularly, they will come to expect it. Try to limit them to 30 mins or less so it is manageable for all involved.

  • Keep it simple Keep your bedtime routine basic so it can be followed even when you are away from home. You can include a warm bath, a bedtime story, a lullaby, being tucked in and a kiss goodnight.

  • Bedtime reminders Toddlers may benefit from a couple of reminders that bedtime is approaching; springing it on them suddenly will only make them more reluctant to give up playing.

  • Turn out the lights This helps your child to distinguish the difference between day and night. If he wakes up and it's dark, then it's still ‘night time'.

  • Be flexible If your child is ill and wants an extra story you can bend the rules a little – just try not to break the routine entirely. Bedtime is a special time for both of you, so enjoy the bonding and snuggle time!

  • Avoid making it a punishment Try to keep your bedtime routine sacred, so avoid taking it away as a punishment.

Enjoy every bedtime: while it can be challenging at times, it's certainly a precious bonding experience!